John & Cheri Skubic know a whole lot of people – through work, play, organizations they are involved in and friends of friends who are drawn to the couple’s friendliness and hospitality. They have a considerable social network, which suits them just fine - after all, the more people they know, the more people they can introduce to Jesus. For years, the Skubics have lived out their personal faith statement: to lead ourselves and others one step closer to Christ. They pursue this mission prayerfully and intentionally by opening their home to friends and acquaintances and creating opportunities for them to learn more about Christianity, to ask questions about faith, and to meet Christ in personal and life changing ways.
This hasn’t always been the case. Cheri has had an evangelistic heart since childhood. The daughter of a pastor, she came to Christ when she was 8 and got baptized at 11; yet, somewhere along the line, she set aside her passion. “I loved Jesus, but for a long time I had one foot in the world and one foot in God.” This changed in
John, who was raised Catholic, dutifully followed Cheri to church and attended a
Almost immediately, John wanted to share his faith. As an intellectual, he was drawn to apologetics and valued a reasoned approach to answering tough questions about God, creation, and the Bible. He and Cheri asked Rick to teach an apologetics-based study in their home for some of their friends who did not know Christ. While some they invited declined, many others came. John believes that you “just have to take a chance and ask people. All they can do is say no, and they may say yes and surprise you.”
After a half dozen of these “Third Fridays,” they began to notice that there was a regular group of people who consistently came each week. Rick suggested that John lead that group in a deeper, more structured bible study. These home studies continued for a few years. The
Last year at a social gathering, a friend asked if they’d start another “seekers study” like they had done with Rick years ago. The friend had been talking with some mutual acquaintances, many of whom Cheri hadn’t seen for years, and the idea “just came up”. A while later, Cheri ran into a different friend who asked her if she was still hosting a bible study. So, after praying for God’s direction, she and John sent out invitations again, this time to about 18 people who had loose connections to one another.
“When we invite people, if they enter this door, we trust that God’s heart is for them to come to be saved. So it might not be today, and it might not be tomorrow, but in time we know God is calling their heart. We trust it will be someday.”
Some whom they invite are antagonistic. Some walk out. But the majority find something in the study that keeps them returning.
John is sometimes surprised at the response to their invitations. “Some of these guys I’ve known for over 20 years. In the past, they’d not darken a room where anything religious was being talked about, but the Lord works in mysterious ways. I think when a lot of men reach a certain stage, sort of a midlife crisis in a faith sense, they realize there’s something more.” John reflects on one man who came on the first night of a study and said, ‘I’ll come because my wife wants to come.’ Three weeks later, after sensing God’s hand in a specific event in his life, he says ‘I’m coming because I need to come and I want to come.’
For these seekers groups, the Skubics utilize a study series which focuses on addressing tough questions such as “why do bad things happen to good people” and “is the bible reliable”. John notes that, “at the beginning of the study, 80% of the room might say they believe that all religions lead to God. By the end, they’ve come to a different understanding. Is the
This October, the Skubics will take another break from their current study to host a new seven-week series at Trinity called Christianity Explored. This class will walk through the book of Mark and explore who Jesus is, why He came, and what this means for people today. The